i simply dont understand what young gers are thinking now... how do they see love as? something where substitution can come into place?? i just dont understand... why must they rush into another relationship when the previous one did not have a good start or end? ppl not around me are liddat, ppl around me are oso liddat... what is the world turning into? do love really hurt that much? must they find a substitute so quickly after they are hurt?? furthermore, shouldnt they at least find one that is of better aspects rather than settling down on one that everyone knows it is impossible.. hurting herself in the end seems a bit stupid to do it this way. mayb it may seems a bit bad to conclude that their bonds will not last, but i admit i see it this way.

take care, my dear friend, this is all i can say.. i have no say in your life, i cant do anything to help you find your way, cos i have not found mine yet.. maybe one day, when our paths cross again, you would say you are living good and i am wrong to say. however, sometimes some things you can only learn to accept the hard fate the hard way...